Indian feast

The other day we had a big Indian dinner at our friends’ house. We enjoyed the following spicy and savory deliciousness.

Saag Paneer (Internet, ??)- the other day we bought ready to eat saag paneer packets and added frozen spinach and some cream to extend the dish. This is the recipe we usually use though:

  • 1 large onion
  • 3 garlic cloves
  • 1 oz fresh ginger
  • 1 pound frozen chopped spinach, thawed
  • 1 cup plain yogurt
  • 4 oz buttermilk
  • 2 tsp red chili powder
  • 2 tsp garam masala
  • 1 cup half and half
  • 6 oz paneer (soft Indian cheese can be purchased)

Grind onion, garlic, and ginger in a processor to a paste.

Add the spinach, yogurt, buttermilk, chili powder, garam masala.

Move the mixture to the stove top and simmer for 20 to 30 minutes.

Mash the mixture and add the half and half. Continue to simmer it for 10 to 15 more minutes.

Add the cheese. Serve warm.

Chana Masala (Williams-Sonoma Savoring India, Julie Sahn)- The other night we bought ready to eat packets and added tomatoes and chick peas to counter the saltiness and spicyness. Here is our recipe:

  • 3 cups chick peas from a can
  • 1/4 cup olive oil
  • 1 tsp cumin seeds
  • 2 yellow onions, finely chopped
  • 1 tsp fresh ginger grated
  • 2 tsp ground coriander
  • 1/2 tsp ground tumeric
  • 1/2 tsp cayenne pepper
  • 2 tomatoes finely chopped
  • 2 tsp tomato paste
  • 1 tsp lemon juice
  • 1/2 cup water
  • 1 tsp garam masala
  • 1/4 cup fresh cilantro, chopped

Rinse and drain the chick peas.

Warm olive oil in large pan over medium/hight heat.  When hot add cumin and stir until turns dark, about 15 seconds.

Add onions and cook until soft and golden.

Add ginger, coriander, tumeric, cayenne pepper and tomatoes. Stir and cook until tomatoes begin to brown.

Add chick peas, tomato paste, lemon juice, and water. Mix well and bring to a boil. Reduce to simmer so flavors can mix.

Serve warm with garam masala and cilantro sprinkled on top.

Samosa (The Best of India, Balraj Khanna) - The other night we just served the filling and did not make the pastry part. Samosas are one of our favorite snacks. Maybe I’ll make some this weekend.

Pastry:

  • 3 cups all purpose flour
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1/2 cup olive oil
  • 1/2 to 3/4 cups cold water

Filling:

  • 1 medium fresh hot green chili, seeded
  • one 2 inch piece fresh ginger, coarsley chopped
  • 1 Tbsp dried pomegranate seeds (I just don’t add this)
  • 5 Tbsp olive oil
  • 1/2 tsp cumin seeds
  • 1 tsp coriander seeds, crushed
  • 1 cup finely chopped onions
  • 1+1/2 tsp garam masala
  • 1 pound potatoes, peeled, boiled, coarsley chopped (I mix white and sweet potatoes)
  • 1 cup frozen peas
  • oil for frying

To prepare pastry: In a large bowl combine flour and salt. Make a well in the center and add oil into it. Rub mixture between your fingertips until combined (the point is not to mash it and make it glue-y). Add just enough water to make a soft dough. Knead the dough in the bowl for about 10 minutes, or until smooth and elastic. Shape the dough into a ball*, rub lightly with oil and voer with plastic wrap. Refrigerate for 30 minutes.

*When Peleh was just a little pea we called him “Chipati Cheeks”.  Imagine little dough balls like this. They were so soft and kissable.

Prepare potato filling:

In a blender or processor combine the chili, ginger and pomegranate seeds, into a fine paste.

In a medium saucepan heat 3 Tbsp oil over medium/high heat until very hot but not smoking.

Add cumin and coriander seeds. Cook, stirring constantly, 30 seconds, or until the seeds pop and blacken.

Add onion and remaining oil. Cook, stirring occasionally until onions are golden.

Reduce heat to low. Add chili mixture from blender and cook, stirring constantly for 4 minutes.

Stir in garam masala, potatoes, peas and cook stirring occasionally for about 5 minutes.

Set aside.

To make the Samosas:

Knead the dough briefly and divide into 4 portions. Shape each piece into a ball. Work with 1 ball at a time, keeping the others covered with a clean, damp towel.

Divide 1 ball into 4 more portions. (think of cute baby cheeks)

On a lightly floured surface, roll out each piece into a 6 inch circle and cut it in half.

Moisten the edges with cold water and wrap it around your finger to form a cone with a 1/4 inch overlapping seam.

Press the seam tightly to seal it.

Loosely fill the cone with 1+1/2 Tbsp of the filling mixture.

Pinch the top to seal and crimp the edges with a fork.

Set aside until all the dough is filled.

In a deep frying pan (we usually use a stock pot to reduce the mess) heat 2 inches of oil over medium heat.

Using a slotted spoon, place 4 or 5 samosas in the oil and fry 4 to 5 minutes, turning often until golden.

Remove with slotted spoon and drain on paper towels.

Keep warm in a low oven.

Serve warm as an appetizer or snack.

Rasedar (Williams-Sonoma Savoring India, Julie Sahni): This was delicious. Vegetables in cumin-scented tomato gravy. The name means “flavorfully sauced”.

  • 2 Tbsp olive oil
  • 1 tsp cumin seeds
  • 1 Tbsp peeled and finely chopped fresh ginger
  • 1 Tbsp ground coriander
  • 1+1/2 tsp ground cumin
  • 3/4 tsp ground tumeric
  • 1/2 tsp cayenne pepper
  • 1 cup peeled, chopped potatoes
  • 2 tomatoes, pureed
  • 2 cups chopped vegetables (green beans, broccoli, cabbage, brussels sprouts, peas, bell peppers, kohlrabi, in any combination)
  • 2 cups water or chicken stock
  • 1+1/2 tsp salt, or to taste
  • 1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro

In a large frying pan over medium/high heat warm the oil.

Add cumin seeds and cook, stirring until the tirn dark brown, about 15 seconds.

Stir in the ginger, coriander, cumin, tumeric, cayenne pepper. Cook, stirring 5 seconds.

Add potatoes, tomatoes, vegetables, water/stock, and salt.

Bring it to a boil over high heat. Reduce to a simmer, cover and cook until vegetables are very soft.

Thicken the sauce by mashing some of the potatoes and other vegetables.

Taste and correct the seasoning if needed. Serve with sprinked cilantro.
Naan - store bought or http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vow-kxTPatc

Kheere ka Raita (The Best of India, Balraj Khanna) - This is easy (as long as you have access to fresh mint) and great for cooling all the spicyness.

  • 2 cups plain yogurt
  • 1 medium cucumber, peeled, seeded and finely chopped
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • 1/8 tsp black pepper
  • 2 Tbsp finely chopped fresh mint, or 2 tsp dried
  • 1 small garlic clove, minced
  • 1/8 tsp ground cumin, plus 1/4 tsp for garnish
  • 1/4 tsp paprika, for garnish

In a medium bowl beat the yogurt until smooth.

Add cucumber, salt, pepper, mint, garlic, 1/8 tsp cumin, and stir until blended.

Turn raita into a serving bowl.

Cover with plastic and refrigerate until ready to serve.

Just before serving sprinkle with cumin and paprika.

Rice - long grain basmati, can be bought in most grocery stores.

Chai - spiced tea, easy to find in stores.

Long Weekend

We’ve been enjoying a long weekend. Yesterday was especially fun because we knew it was ’second Saturday’ which made it more exciting. Peleh’s Auntie Katie came to visit from Brooklyn. We had a good time in downtown Pittsburgh. After picking Katie up from the airport we killed some time at a nice green park, playing on the rusty equipment, until we met up with Peleh’s Uncle Seth and Ali at the Ethiopian restaurant (Abay). Katie said it was the best Ethiopian she had had. It was our first and was delicious. Michael who lived and worked in Pittsburgh during college, and some local friends recommended it. I was a little disappointed we didn’t get to sit on the floor, or at the low tables with little stools, but with Peleh and because I was wearing a dress it worked out just fine.

We brought Katie back to Greensburg and she got to check out the house and town. She misunderstood me when I said it was Communities Days in Greensburg this weekend and we would get to go that evening. She thought I said Community Dance and thought ‘ uuuuuh… great!’  We did go check it out once the sun went down and it cooled down. While we waited I made some Brie en Crout which was good but I like fresh brie better.

So we went to Community Days which is held in the park just too far from our house to walk. We parked a few blocks closer and walked in with the stroller. There were lots of people. Lots of strollers but maybe that’s just something I notice. There were craft booths, fried foods of all sorts, a sound stage, and carnival rides. We arrived just in time to check out the rides and decide the lines were too long for chocolate covered fruit and for tickets. Then the fireworks began and we made our way back to a grassy area to sit and watch. Peleh liked it and pointed up to the fireworks every now and then. Otherwise he wanted to push the stroller and he walked over to the little girl near us and sat watching her for a long time. Sorry we didn’t get to dance, Katie.

On Sunday morning Katie, Peleh, Deseo and I went to Busy Run and did the little hike around the trail. It was very hot so we dragged ourselves back to the truck and went back to the house to lounge around.

Today we are enjoying another lazy day of galvanized tub water works, twizzlers, and naps.

the INTERNET!

At first it didn’t matter because we were so busy unpacking, then I went through withdrawal, and then life moved on. But now that we’re back online it’s deliciously fabulous! After 3 weeks we can now bank again, keep in touch, and research anything! It’s a lifestyle I appreciate much more now. Especially because of the ordeal I went through to get it! After flipflopping from Verizon to Comcast to Verizon to Comcast I ordered and canceled two setups then tried to hook up the cable modem. I hauled the desktop (because the laptop can’t read disks, and because the desktop has the scanner installed for deposits) into the dining room. Then realized it needed to be closer to the cable cables so I moved it into the basement. Then I realized it actually needed to be closer to the cables at the tv so I hauled it back up into the living room. Who needs a gym when you’ve got stairs and a 50 pound computer? So finally we got it all hooked up and I am now an accomplished Internet technician (no offense to those who really are).

So Greensburg is a really nice busy little city. Our neighborhood is a 1950s post WWII American Dream come true. Our street is a thorough-fare which is too bad, it’s a little bit busy (and nobody goes 25.) There are lots of kids who play in and near our yard. Peleh loves watching them play kickball in the street, shoot hoops, rides bikes and skateboards. Deseo likes our neighbors Buddy the mutt and Beau the black lab. She’s very intrigued by the little Dachshunds but they’re trapped in a fence. Peleh and I have ventured into Pittsburgh twice to see the aviary and the zoo. Though Peleh is very content climbing on the basket of shoes at the front door.  I try to get out of the house everyday so I don’t go crazy, plus with such a small yard Deseo needs adventure too. There are two parks nearby (about 7 miles) that are nice and dog-friendly so we alternate between them.

It’s rained a lot so everything is green and growing. Our 70+ year old neighbor MaryLou takes immaculate care of her yard and mows our lawn while she’s at it. Paulie the mailman helps out, he mows the bank in the back.

This week I’ll work on getting the laptop fixed and a wireless network set up so I’ll be able to upload pictures. (The SD card doesn’t fit in the  desktop, and the laptop can’t read disks so I can’t install the internet there.) I’ll do it as soon as I can.

I’ll give you a visual while you wait:

Peleh is sitting on the floor, on our floral patterened rug which is on top of the baby blue 1980s carpet. He’s wearing one leather slipper because that’s the only one he brought to me to put on, and no pants because he lost is balance in the kitchen and took a seat in the pet water dish. His legs are curled around a bowl of blackbean dip and a ziplock bag of tortilla chips. The blackbeans and tomatoes are smeared down his chin and on his legs but he is happy. The sun makes his curly blonde mullet shine, now my pants have little finger prints of poop-looking bean dip, and Deseo is enjoying a soggy chip, hold the tomatoes.

Pie Day to the longest weekend of my life

A few years ago Noah and I began the tradition of celebrating the evening before a weekend (usually Friday but sometimes not). I would make a pie and he’d have a nice drink and sometimes a cigar to celebrate the sleep-in potential of the next morning. Pie Day evolved as we realized we always ate the whole pie by Sunday and I got sick of making pie crusts. Of course Peleh came along and the sleep-in potentials diminished into the negatives. We still celebrate Pie Day now sometimes with brownies, pie, pizza (pie), or other treats. And without much potential for sleep-in we celebrate free days with Peleh.

About four weeks ago I gave my two-week-notice at work and for the past two weeks have been packing and cleaning. On that pie day I made and ate a pan of brownies. I figured with no employment prospects in my future for the next year at least, it would make up for my lack of Pie Days to come. Though don’t think for one minute that Peleh and I won’t be celebrating Noah’s Pie Days.

Yesterday we loaded the moving truck with the help of old friends, new friends, friends’ friends, and the truck driver and his wife. Today we are cleaning and sorting ‘give-away’ from ‘trash’. Noah just pointed out the pile of clothes he plopped in my closet a few weeks ago were supposed to be packed, but I thought they were for give-away. Deseo is very worried and depressed. On the days when we have friends here helping she loves it like it’s a party. But this morning with just us buzzing around she’s pretty upset. So I decided to sit here with her for a little bit of quiet.

Tonight we’ll leave in the evening and drive about 4 hours to Rapid City and then get a good start in the morning.

Goodbye Montana

[by Eva]

Three weeks left in the Big Sky State. We enjoyed a gift of a romantic getaway weekend (thanks R+J) in the Rock Creek Resort in Red Lodge as a goodbye trip. We enjoyed wine and chocolates, and snow and sun. We hiked and played in the snow. We realized we didn’t take Peleh sledding this year so I fashioned a sled out of my raincoat and dragged Peleh around in the snow. He loved it.

Deseo had a last romp in griz’ country and we hiked a little slower as we said goodbye (for now) to the Beartooths.  A few of my ‘most beautiful places’ memories are from Beartooth Pass and we’ll miss its perfection.

My 2 favorite Christmas gifts.

About one year ago (January 2009, when I wrote this) I was working on cleaning up the Christmas decorations and boxing up the snowman candlesticks, candy canes, and strings of lights. I was 8 months pregnant and focused on Baby Boy and my family visiting soon to greet him. I noticed that one of the prongs on my diamond ring was loose. My thought was “Hey, that’s loose. I usually can’t feel it like that. Huh. I wish I could fit all the Christmas lights in one box.” A few days later I noticed that the glitter of my ring just wasn’t as brilliant as usual -  because it was an empty hole! I ran (waddled) out to the garage and showed Noah. I really wasn’t too sad about it but I was pretty disappointed. I loved my unique purple diamond in the filigree ring, but I wasn’t too sad. I didn’t want to get stuck on it because my family and Peleh were on their way. I didn’t want everybody making a big deal about it either. I told my mom but not even my sister.

I did tell my boss who suggested that I sift through the vacuum bag. I had just vacuumed though and had taken the bag out and put it on the curb. It was gone. I did crawl on the floor of the guest room where I noticed the missing diamond, with a flashlight. After the close inspection to the carpet I realized that I should actually have vacuumed in there too.  No diamond. Oh well. It was just a ring. Just a thing. Not that important.

Waaahhh! I really was disappointed though! Especially because I had felt that the setting was loose! Why hadn’t I done anything about it??!

Soon after that Noah and I were at the mall and, just because we were there, we stopped in one of the jewelry stores to see what they thought about replacing my purple diamond. They didn’t really know anything about purple diamonds but thought there was one within the company somewhere. Noah did some more research, checked the appraisal that came with the ring when he bought it, asked around… Well, not too many people know much about purple diamonds because they are rare. A rare diamond is expensive too, as it turns out. A diamond increases in value as it increases in clarity and decreases in color. However, when the color goes in the opposite direction too far it increases in value as its color deepens. My diamond was a deep merlot. I didn’t like to think about it. It made me just so sick at not having done anything - or even thought anything - about the loose prong.

With little money after college, Noah thought it would be a nice ring for me. He could afford it on an online estate auction and it was something different and in color that he knew I would like. He looked further into replacing the 1/4 carat for Christmas this year and discovered that the $500 ring he bought for me couldn’t be filled for less than $1200, but more easily for $3000 or $4000.

“Holy ****, Noah!!”

I saw something glitter on the rug. Unbelievable! It was a pretty big piece of glitter. I stuck my finger on it to pick it up but it was hard and had some weight. I had just changed Peleh’s diaper on the floor in the living room and saw this round piece of glitter. It must have come from something in the Christmas boxes, but I didn’t remember anything with glitter that large. Because it wasn’t glitter! It must have fallen out of the boxes which I had gotten out again for another Christmas.

I FOUND MY DIAMOND!

So I didn’t get a new diamond for Christmas. I got my old diamond and new camera.

things I’d like to do

We’re moving to Pittsburgh in about 3 weeks and I’ve been thinking about all the things I want to do there. Peleh and I will be keeping it real during the week while Noah’s at work. Some of the things I want to do represent a change for me and Peleh, but others are things I hope to continue.

take a community ed art class

eat delicious food

do yoga with Peleh

jog with Deseo

paint

sleep in

expand my culinary  expertise

get good haircuts

wear stylish clothes

hang out with friends in cool parks and cafes

find small mom-n-pop bookstores

shop at boutiques

research pre-schools

get to know, and buy from a butcher and a baker… and maybe a candlestick maker

join a CSA

pick blueberries and strawberries

pick apples and pumpkins

get another dog

own a home

mountain bike!

listen to cicadas

drive - not fly

swim in the cousins’ pool

join a community garden

smell the rain all day long

not get splinters when I walk on the grass

go to concerts

surprise Noah with picnic lunches on workdays

belong in a good church

play/watch/coach soccer

El Salvador

We were in El Salvador last week with Nita (Peleh’s grandmother) and Tio Frio (just ’cause it rhymes) aka Uncle Mike. It was warm, dusty, tastey, fun, and beautiful. We ate lots of delicious fresh fruits, drank delicious fresh coffee, and played in the Pacific and the mountains. We made some friends at Michael’s Peace Corps site, including Kanguru the amazing dog with use of only his front legs. We rented a pick up truck and drove all over the country (about the size of Massachusetts). We saw little towns, tiny communities, bigger towns, and the capitol. We spent some time at the beach and played in the surf of the Pacific. I wasn’t really able to enjoy the waves as much as I used to because I was too nervous about Peleh being swept away. It was tons of fun to speak Spanish again. I was impressed at my abilities to bring forward the vocabulary I hadn’t used in years - like at the San Salvador airport when I was able to ask a woman if the bathroom was full before I busted in and vomited in the garbage can, because the toilets were in fact all occupied. I didn’t end the trip well and am still fighting a head cold but still had an excellent time.

It was a lot of fun to hang out with Michael and see him in his element. His language skills are impressive, as well as his driving. He’s very generous and easy going, yet firm on matters of principal like bargaining and tipping. It’s much more fun to talk to him on the phone now because I can picture him in his little home, or in some city or pueblo.

It was a fun trip. El Salvador is beautiful and the poeple are little and kind. I was disappointed about the lack of indigenous culture, but we did pick up some indigenous clay pottery.  Now we’re back to cold weather and work.

Peleh and I were very sick this week. Peleh is pretty much completely recovered from having RSV - [Respiratory syncytial (sin-SISH-uhl) virus, or RSV, is a respiratory virus that infects the lungs and breathing passages. (CDC.gov)] He still has a little bit of a cough, but the doctor said he’ll have that for up to 4 more weeks. I have a really bad head cold.

Merry Winter!

Our Christmas holiday was spent in Niceville, Fla with Nana, Aunt Linda and Uncle Frank, and Nathan and Aga. It was a fun trip but the warm weather and different schedule made it feel like something unlike Christmas. We also arrived in the wee hours of December 26 so that contributed to that feeling as well.

There was a lot of fog in Pensacola, Fla that evening so Noah’s flight (we flew separetely from Minneapolis) was rerouted to Mobile Alabama where the airline provided a bus for everyone to come to Pensacola. Since I thought the carseat was checked in under Noah’s name, Peleh and I didn’t even bother going down to baggage claim when we arrived in Pensacola around 9pm. We parked ourselves in a quiet carpeted area with 2 massage chairs. Peleh practiced walking while pushing the umbrella stroller with the brakes on. We played with nesting barrels (thanks Gramma Shaltes), read some books, updated other family members about the Mobile reroute, and kept in touch with our own family as best I could with my dead cell phone. Last Christmas Aunt Shui and Uncle Donald gave us a phone card - a relic of cell-less days. I usually keep it in my wallet but had used it to make a call from work the other day and of course didn’t store it again.

At some point I checked my messages and heard that Noah didn’t have the checked bag with the carseat in Mobile and hoped that I did in Pensacola. We packed up our toys and bags and headed down to baggage claim to see the duffel in the locked Delta office. Ours was the last Delta flight and we had arrived at least an hour before hand. I began to freak out. It was going on hour 13 of our travel day and Noah was still not there, I didn’t have anyway to call anyone - pay phones were calling card only. Peleh hadn’t slept very much that day and was surviving his ear infection on Tylenol. I was surviving on sweet potato puffs. I pushed Peleh back and forth from the empty check in lanes to the empty baggage claim and tried not to cry. We missed Christmas dinner for this?? What if the bus from Mobile can’t make it in the fog? What if we can’t leave because we have no carseat? Then on the loop back to the baggage claim we passed a few new people… we had formed one of those loosely knit communties of wait-ers in a small airport. I looked outside and saw the headlights of a bus! Papa was here! Everything was going to be just fine!

And it was. Noah gave me a beautiful gold box of lots of Godiva darks. The car rental agent gave us a carseat to keep. We drove home to Nana’s and the fog wasn’t even that bad. We arrived just after one am and found Nathan, Aga, and Nana awake and ready to play. Peleh woke up when we got in the house and we all stayed up for another hour. Merry Christmas! We ate huge yummy plates of Christmas dinner reheated.

We were pretty tired the next day but had fun with lots of presents. Peleh was working through the second week of his marathon ear infection but in between fevers and ear drainages he had a good time in Nana’s ‘office’ and in her pots and pans cabinet. We didn’t make it to the beach but enjoyed the warm mornings on the patio with the lizards, and barefeet, single layers of short sleeves, and more consecutive daylight hours than we could remember . Noah got to stay with us for the long weekend but had to return to work. Peleh and I stayed until New Years Day.

We’re back to snow, single digits, and layers but now we’re working on our next trip to El Salvador to see Uncle Mike.

Snow day!

Not really, though it is snowing outside. Peleh and I are home from work and daycare today because he has a fever. :( He was so tired last night when I picked him up from his babysitter’s but I couldn’t get him to fall asleep. Then he just burst into a fever. Poor little guy.

We’re getting ready for the big Braymer visit next week! Claudia, Ryan and Baby Sue will be in Montana next week! We’re going to go to Chico Hot Springs and soak in the hot pools while the air is freezing around us. Before they arrive though, we’re planning to go out next weekend to Custer National Forest to chop down a Christmas tree. We’re excited for Peleh’s first and planning to celebrate it in Niceville, FL with my grandmother, Bana.

I’ve been thinking about Christmas and baby Jesus. Since I have a little guy, I try to think of how it might have been for Mary to consider her baby as the king of kings. I don’t think I can get there, but it’s an interesting thought.